I'm Not An R & B Dude But . . .

If you know me, you know that I love hip hop.  However, I appreciate good R & B music as much as the next person.  People always tell me that all I listen to is hip hop.  I usually respond with a laugh and say, “yeah you are right.”  Of course, this is not totally true.  Of the 5,000 songs I have in my I tunes, probably 90% of the music is hip hop, but there are a few R & B classics included in the group.  Check out a few of my favorite R & B albums.

Brown Sugar

12 Play

  

Where I Wanna Be

All That I Am

The Best of Marvin Gaye

Urban Hang Suite

TP 2.COM

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Best Debut Album: Biggie, Jay-Z or Nas?

I had a conversation about hip hop the other day and it prompted me to ask myself the question: who had the best debut album of all time?  The more I think about this question, the more I realize that there is no right or wrong answer.  Then, I started thinking about the components which are necessary for a great debut album.  I believe the overall impact an album has on the hip hop community is important but it is not the only or most important factor.  For instance, Reasonable Doubt did not sell major records at the time of its release.  However, it still had a major impact on hip hop’s underground music scene.  Jay-Z has alluded to this very fact when he rhymed that “people did not really appreciate it until the second one came out.”  This is very true and I suspect that this album now receives the admiration it truly deserves.  Nas’ Illmatic, on the other hand, was felt immediately by the mainstream and the underground because of his exploits before his actual debut.  By the time his album was released, he was already held in high regard because of his work on Main Source’s “Live at the BBQ.”  Nas was ahead of his time in terms of making music that could be appreciated by a wide range of people.  B.I.G’s Ready to Die was also a classic album that was highly anticipated.  Of the three debut albums, I believe B.I.G had the best marketing and promotional team and that helped get his message to the masses at a much higher clip.

Sometimes our expectations for an album can be too high.  I think that when fans have no idea that an album will be great; it is easier to appreciate that album.  There are also albums that are highly anticipated but fans do not expect perfection.  I think a good example of this is Raekwon’s Only Built for Cuban Linx album.  Obviously, Raekwon was a respected emcee and had rhymed on Wu Tang Clan’s Enter the 36 Chambers album.  However, many people, at that time, believed Method Man was the best artist from the Wu Tang Clan.  As such, the expectations for Raekwon to drop a classic debut album were not nearly as high.  When he finally released his debut album, it was deemed as an instant classic, and for good reason.  Now, I think Drake is an artist who had so much hype that he could never meet or exceed the expectations.  This guy grossed 7 million dollars in a year without having a record deal.  With that kind of financial production and his long list of mixtapes, the expectations for a great album were high.  Needless to say, I do not think his first album is a classic.  In fact, I think he underachieved on his first album and I believe he released better music on his mixtapes.  I have not had a chance to listen to J. Cole’s album as of yet, but I hope his album is not plagued by unrealistic expectations by the fans.

The final component I will discuss is the importance that making timeless music has on the impact of a debut album.  In my opinion, timeless music can be appreciated today, tomorrow or 40 years from now. The timeless feeling that a good song has is something  the greats of music such as Marvin Gaye or Franky Beverly and Maze  have mastered.  I was telling my mom just the other day that “Before I Let Go” is still the official song played at the end of the night at homecoming parties across the country.  I truly believe this song will always be appreciated and will make people want to dance and have a good time.  I also believe Deangelo’s “Brown Sugar” song has that timeless feel to it.    There is no way to forecast whether an artist will produce timeless music.    It is truly one of those things that you know when you hear.  In hip hop, Tribe Called Quest’s “Electric Relaxation” and “Award Tour” have the timeless feeling.  It is amazing to me that these songs were released in the early 90’s but are still very much relevant and appreciated to this day. 

My selection for best debut album came down to a choice between Reasonable Doubt, Illmatic and Ready to Die.  Ultimately, I chose Reasonable Doubt because I believe 1996 was the year I really began to love hip hop music.  I heard Reasonable Doubt, Atliens and It was Written while I participated in a basketball tournament in Florida.  Before that time, I had “heard” hip hop, but I had not really “listened” to hip hop.  After listening to those albums, I learned to appreciate lyrics and the artistry inherent in all good music.  What is your choice for best debut hip hop album? 

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One Of My Favorite Comedians: Martin Lawrence

For as long as I can remember, I have enjoyed laughing.  As a young child and still as an adult, I prefer to surround myself with people who enjoy the sound of laughter.  I prefer not being around people who take life too seriously and do not know how to unwind and have a good laugh.  We live in a world where natural disasters and man-made disasters happen far too often.  Laughing is a great way to forget about reality and enjoy the moment.  Some of my fondest childhood memories are times I can remember laughing until tears nearly came streaming down my face.  My closest groups of friends from college, whom I consider to be brothers, are some of the funniest people I know.  We disagree on certain issues, but we do not take ourselves too seriously and we always have a good time.

My favorite aunt hosted family gatherings at her house when I was a child.  I could always count on there being food, laughs and music.  I remember the adults telling all the kids to go to a back room to play so they could watch Russell Simmons’ show entitled Def Comedy Jam.  At the time, I had no concept of what the show was about, but I certainly knew that everyone in the house was laughing for some reason.  Not knowing what was funny and not being a part of the fun puzzled me for a number of years.  Then, when I became old enough to watch certain movies and television shows, I watched many episodes of Def Comedy Jam.  At this time, comedians such as Martin Lawrence, Bernie Mac, DL Hughley, Steve Harvey and Chris Tucker had not yet become household names.  These comedians came from different places and had totally different styles of comedy.  However, the one common thread shared by each of them was ambition.

My favorite comedian of that era is without a doubt Martin Lawrence.  When he hosted Def Comedy Jam, he said some of the funniest things I had ever heard.  He used the fame he earned on that show to enable him to have his own one-hour comedy special entitled You So Crazy.  The first time I watched You So Crazy, I could not stop laughing.  He discussed many controversial issues, but he found a way to make us laugh along the way.  One thing that makes comedians standout and Martin Lawrence to a greater extent, is their uncanny ability to laugh at their own pain.  During You So Crazy, Martin discussed an unhealthy relationship he had with an ex girlfriend.  The subject matter was somewhat serious, but his delivery was very funny.  He also had a sketch about the things people do when they are dating a person and how many of those behaviors are discarded once each person is “comfortable” in the relationship.  The way he describes the stories are hilarious; however, each joke has a great deal of truth in it as well. 

The best work Martin has performed was his self entitled show Martin.  I remember coming home from school, doing my homework and being very anxious for his show to come on.  He had some of the biggest stars in the entertainment business make guest appearances on his show.  Some of the celebrities I remember appearing on his show include The Notorious BIG, Jodeci, Tommy “The Hitman” Hearns, Halle Berry, Tyrese, Method Man, Outcast, Charlie Murphy, Richard Pryor, Shaq and many more.  My favorite character Martin played was Dragon Fly Jones but Ole Otis was probably my second favorite character I know his show was a classic because I can still watch it today and laugh like I have never seen the show before.  

Check out clips from some of my favorite episodes.

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9/11 10 Years Later: Where Were You When The Towers Fell?

Yesterday, I spent a good portion of my day watching football and reflecting on the 9/11 tragedy.  I still remember vividly where I was and what I was doing on 9/11/01.  I was a sophomore at UNC-Greensboro and the school year had just begun.  As such, I was still very much in summer vacation mode and had not begun to buckle down in the classroom.  I remember waking up that morning and being excited because Jay-Z’s Blueprint album was set to be released that day.  At that time, which was before mass bootlegging, people actually bought albums in the store, so the thought of an album selling out was always a possibility.  I knew I had class until around 2pm and that I would not be able to make my way to Best Buy to purchase the album until that time.  I arrived on campus around 8:30 am, so I would be able to find a parking space.  I think the lack of available parking, despite owning a parking pass, is a problem experienced by every college student on every college campus in America.  Either way, I arrived early and I found a good parking spot.  Other than my excitement about purchasing new music, my day was typical.  However, I was in for an unfortunate surprise which turned my day upside down.

Because I arrived at school so early, I went to the Atrium, which was an area of the University which housed the school’s convenience store (C-Store), Chick-Fil-A and a coffee shop.  There were a number of tables and chairs in the lobby area of the Atrium.  I walked to the C-store to purchase a snack and as I walked out of the store, I noticed a crowd of people gathered around a television.  Normally, I never noticed the televisions because they were always set to CNN and at the time, I was not interested in watching the news.  I looked at the television and noticed a clip being played of air planes crashing into tall buildings.  At first, I thought CNN was showing a clip from a movie or something.  However, as I continued to watch and listen to the commentary, I realized that our Country was under attack.  Immediately, my instincts urged me to call my parents to see if they were aware of the attack.  Then, I called one of my good friends who haled from New York.  I wanted to know if his family was okay and he said he was not sure because he could not get through to speak with them.  I cannot imagine how he and so many other people must have felt at that moment. 

9/11 is the worst terrorist event in the history of our Country.  Many innocent people lost their lives on that faithful day.  The thing that stands out in my mind are the heroes that lost their lives and those people who did not make it to the Twin Towers that day for whatever reason.  I was talking to one of my friends yesterday and I expressed my appreciation and respect for the firefighters who ventured into burning buildings to rescue complete strangers.  I think being willing to give your life for another, and especially a person you do not know is one of the most selfless acts imaginable.  It is easy to say that you would run into a burning building to rescue a loved one, but to do so for a complete stranger would be a different story.  I am a firm believer in the fight or flight theory that provides that under certain circumstances, people will either fight or flee.  Who knows how you might react under these circumstances.  As I watched some of the specials on CNN yesterday, they showed pictures of firefighters climbing up the stairs of burning buildings, while employees were fleeing the building and heading to safety.  I just cannot imagine how I would have handled myself in that situation.  Nonetheless, I am thankful for the many heroes of the day who saved lives.

I am also amazed at the stories I have heard about those individuals who would have been at the Twin Towers but for some unforeseen event.  I received an email a few months after 9/11/01 that told stories of survivors of the horrible day.  I remember hearing a story of one guy who worked at the Twin Towers.  For whatever reason, he was running a little behind schedule on that faithful morning.  As any working adult knows, some days, you just cannot quite seem to get it together.  On that morning, as he was walking to the subway, he spilled some coffee on his shirt.  As a result, he had to turn around, go back home and change his shirt.  Because he missed the subway, he had to catch the rail at a later time.  Consequently, he was spared from being at work in the towers when they were attacked.  As much as we believe we can protect ourselves, we are really not in control.  He was saved by an otherwise annoying happening and he had no idea that his minor annoyance would be his saving grace. 

I could honestly go on and on about the stories I have heard, but I won’t.  Instead, I wanted to share my 9/11 story and remind us to never forget the tragedy and to take the time to be thankful for each day we have on this earth.  Do you remember what you were doing on that day?

Peace  

My Top 3 Jay-Z Albums

Jay-Z has released many classic albums and my friends and I always debate which albums we believe to encompass his best work.  Often, people rattle off the first Jay-Z album that comes to mind, and that often is simply the latest album he has released.  I do not answer any question about music with such reckless abandon and I always try to think through my response.  Sometimes, it is easy to forget the sheer number of albums Jay-Z has released over the course of his career.  Many people believe his first album, Reasonable Doubt, is the best album he has ever released.  I think many artists release their best work on their first project because they have essentially worked on the first album for as long as they have been rapping.  Think about the list of solo debut classic albums: Raekwon’s Only Built For Cuban Linx; Nas’ Illmatic, Biggie’s Ready to Die and of course Jay-Z’s Reasonable Doubt.  Unfortunately, because of the way the music industry is driven by records sold, the emphasis on having a catchy single is at an all time high.  The passion for producing great music does not exist to the same extent today as it did during the golden era of hip hop. Between the years of 1993-2004, there was no shortage of quality music, whether the music was mainstream or underground. Some of my favorite emcees and groups from this era include: Nas, Tupac, Biggie, Talib Kweli, Mos Def, Common, Capone and Noreaga, Mobb Deep, The Lost Boyz, Wu-Tang Clan, Outkast, Da Lox, Big L, Big Pun, AZ, Cormega and the list goes on and on.  Many of the above mentioned artists are great, but not many of them can boast that they have released classic albums.

What is a classic album?  Some people contend that a classic album is one that has great production, great lyrics, and one that is released at the right time.  The last component cannot be overstated in my opinion because the critical acclaim or scathing criticism an album receives can be tied directly to the timing in which the album is released. For instance, 50 Cent’s album, Get Rich or Die Trying, is widely considered a classic album.  However, let us put the album and its relative worth under another level of scrutiny.  If this album had been released in 1996, would it have been as accepted and revered?  Maybe not.  This album was released at the perfect time and as a result, it was immediately considered a classic album. 

I cannot lie, I am a hard critic of music and sports.  With that being said, I believe some people forget that everyone is entitled to an opinion.  Nowadays, if you do not like something, you are labeled as a “hater.”  My opinion of what a “classic” album encompasses is different than most peoples’ views on the subject.  I believe we all use the term “classic” too loosely.  In my opinion, a classic album is the art equivalent of a masterpiece.  A work of art that is considered a masterpiece does not have flaws, and in this same vein, a classic album should not have any bad songs, beats, or lyrics.  I believe albums that should be considered good projects or even great albums are mislabeled as classics.   Inside my world, if I skip any song on any given album, it simply is not a classic. Classic is synonymous with perfect and this feat is rarely accomplished.  However, I believe Jay-Z has accomplished the feat on at least three occasions.

My favorite Jay-Z album is Reasonable Doubt.  When I first heard the album, I was in Florida at an AAU basketball tournament.  The year was 1996 and it was a great year for hip hop.  I remember listening to Reasonable Doubt, Nas’ It was Written and Outkast’s Atliens album.  Every song on Reasonable Doubt is dope.  The picture he paints on the track, “Dead Presidents” and the hook he used with Nas’ voice combined to produce one of the best songs on the album.  My favorite track on this album changes just as much as the wind blows.   One day my favorite song may be “Feelin it,” or “Can I Live,” or “Politics As Usual.” 

Blueprint is my second favorite Jay-Z album.  To provide some context for my admiration of the album, I was a college sophomore and Jay-Z was engulfed in a historic battle with Nas at the time the album was released. In short, Jay-Z was focused and the result was a classic album.  My favorite track on the album is “Song Cry.”  Sonically, this album sounds different than a lot of other Jay-Z projects.  I believe Blueprint is Jay-Z’s most soulful album to date. 

The Black Album ranks third on my list of Jay-Z albums.  The significance of this album is that it was purportedly Jay-Z’s last album.  The release of the album generated a lot of buzz and I remember Jay-Z releasing the Fade to Black DVD, which chronicled his historic Madison Square Garden performance.  During this time, I did not believe Hov would retire because he seems to be made from the same cloth as Michael Jordan.  Like Jordan, Jay-Z loves the game and the competitive nature of it.  As could be expected, Jay-Z approached the album with a goal of dropping yet another classic album. My favorite song on the album is “Allure.”  The Neptunes dropped the perfect beat and Jay-Z supplied the perfect lyrics for this song.  Sometimes, you have days that seem surreal and perfect and sometimes artists combine with producers to craft the perfect song.  I believe this song is as close to perfect as I have ever heard.

What are your favorite Jay-Z albums?

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Wristwear

Fashion is an important part of my life.  While some people prefer to spend money on shoes or rings, I prefer investing my money on nice watches.  Check out some of my favorite watches.     

Gold Rolex

Black Hublot

Movado

Rolex

See through Hublot

Rolex

Black on Black Hublot 

This is my favorite watch

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Do Not Wear That

This post is devoted to things men should never wear under any circumstances.  Some of the items listed below may have been stylish at some point in time; however, that time has passed so please do not wear it now.  

Stacey Adams—I have seen some of the worst shoes, and suits and color combinations known to man designed by Stacey Adams.

 

Fubu—Just don’t do it!!!

Tube socks and dress shoes—Come on son!!!

Short sleeve dress shirts with a tie—If you are over the age of 7, you need not do this to yourself.

Jean Shorts (Jorts)—Terrible

Lugz—As Big L said “you will never catch me in Lugz."

Durango’s—These were acceptable in the early 2000’s but if you are still wearing them, drive to a cliff and dive into the ocean wearing a vest filled with rocks.

If you are buying an outfit that can be bought on one hanger, you should try again.

Poppin the collar on a polo

Double Breasted Suits

Woven Belts

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Mayweather v. Pacquiao: If You Are Scared Say You Are Scared

I began watching boxing as a young child and have always enjoyed the sport.  I remember watching Mike Tyson fight when I was a young child and when he was in his prime.  People hosted “fight parties” and everyone would be excited to attend.  However, if you arrived at these parties “fashionably late” you were bound to miss the fight because Mike Tyson knocked his opponents out in two to three rounds.  During his prime, Mike Tyson combined the strength of a heavyweight, the speed of a middleweight and the tenacity of an enraged lion.  I also enjoyed watching Roy Jones Jr. fight because of his skill, showmanship and hand speed.

My latest post is inspired by a conversation I had with a family friend.  He and I were talking about boxing and more specifically, who our favorite fighters are.  My favorite fighter currently is Floyd Mayweather but my favorite all time fighter is Muhammad Ali.  My father talked to me about Ali’s skills and some of the strong political stances he made during the volatile era of the 1960’s.  Mike Tyson is also one of my favorite boxers but his problems with the law are well chronicled and ultimately led to the end of his career.  The family friend I spoke with told me he used to be a boxer and that at one point in his career; he was the number one ranked amateur in the nation.  This was really interesting to me because I have talked to him many times and never knew how much he loved the sport of boxing. 

As we continued to talk about boxing, I asked him if Mayweather was afraid to fight Pacquiao.  He responded by saying he does not believe Mayweather is afraid to fight Pacquiao.  He believes the reason they have not fought is because the two sides cannot come to terms regarding the payday for the fight.  He also believes Pacquiao ingests some type of performance enhancing substance.  He said that he has been around the sport of boxing for 20-25 years both as a boxer and as a trainer, and he has watched Pacquiao’s career very closely.  He said the way Pacquiao seems to gets stronger and become faster and more energetic as the fight progresses is not normal.  In fact, the notion that a boxer can become more energetic over the course of a fight is contrary to the way the human body functions. Although I am not a boxer, I have played basketball and football my entire life and I know your body experiences fatigue as the contest progresses.  According to reports, Mayweather is requesting that Pacquiao submit to Olympic style drug testing before he agrees to a fight with him.  I am of the belief that Mayweather is a shrewd businessman and he realizes the importance of promoting a fight and creating controversy.  My family friend and I both believe the fight will happen before the two fighters retire.  I also believe the purse for the fight will be the largest in the history of professional boxing.

There is no doubt in my mind Mayweather is the best fighter in the sport of boxing today.  He has a professional record of 41 wins and 0 losses.  He has been fighting as a professional since 1996.  Although he has an undefeated record, he has certainly had his share of controversial moments, including his first bout with Zab Judah.  During this contest, which he ultimately won, his trainer/uncle Roger Mayweather took offense to a low blow thrown by Zab Judah and engaged in an altercation with members of Judah’s camp.  He continued winning fights and even took 21 months off from boxing.  Upon his return, he fought Juan Marquez and beat him like a drum for a seemingly easy win.  Shortly thereafter, he fought and dominated Sugar Shane Mosely.  Although these fights were impressive, everyone wants to see the Mayweather v. Pacquiao fight.  Some believe Pacquiao will win the battle, while others believe Mayweather will win the fight.  I believe Mayweather will beat Pacquiao because of his impeccable defensive techniques.  I watched Pacquiao fight a few times and he seems to have one style and that is aggressive and in-your-face.  I think this will bode well for Mayweather because he rarely, if ever, takes direct power shots.  Mayweather’s defensive abilities and hand speed are two of his best qualities and I believe these qualities would propel him to a victory over Pacquiao.  Who do you think will win the eventual fight?

 

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